Conventional wisdom that I agree
with states that it is imperative that each person identifies and nurtures a
relationship with a mentor. It is both smart and Biblical with prime examples
being in the corporate world as well as extraordinary characters that were at
some point mentored by someone else. Therefore, I count myself as extremely
blessed to have three men in my life who are not even mentors per sê, they are
great people that God in His great wisdom planned that I’ll learn, glean and
copy from. They may seem ordinary but they are not. And as the last one of them
departs the country today, this is just a piece that I hope to read years from
now and recall these great pillars in my life.
I’ll probably never forget a time I wasn’t feeling good enough about an acting role he assigned me. His response was a tale about a small nail holding the doors of a big cathedral. He said though seemingly insignificant, all parts work together for good. Just do your part and leave the rest to God. ‘Johnny’ was his nickname and I guess his wife can now release a remix of the hit song by the same name since they found each other.
Upon completing high school in 2007, Kenya was
engulfed in the post-election violence that spilled over to the beginning of
the next year. That’s when I attended The Diguna School Leaver’s Camp of 2008.
This is a Christian Mission Organization and though reluctant at first, I had
no option but attend the youth camp since there’s wasn’t much to do as the
violence persisted. A few days into the camp, I met Alan Mwangi, the guy
responsible for me being there in the first place since he had catered for my
admittance through my small sister who they’d been friends for long. I
immediately thought he was the singer Kanjii as he trained us a rendition of
the song ‘Under the Rock’. Though his dancing resembled that of Machang’i, the
legendary Kikuyu actor and that is one aspect of his life that will probably
never change.
So in that January of 2008, little did I know
that the youth camp would change my life forever and since then, Alan has been
an ever present figure in my life. Witty and wise, he is the guy you can trust
to urge you on with life no matter how bleak matters appear. His passion for
God and people has allowed Him to be a source of inspiration to many and I am no
exception. I think he is the guy who I’d not want to leave behind when I go to
my future in-laws for rũracio
as not only would he take brilliant photos as is his ability but he’d help my
case in the quest for a future soul-mate. You see, I always think he can make a
great lawyer or politician for his convincing prowess. Either that or a
renowned talk show host . But for now, the Kingdom of God continues to expand
due to Alan’s diligence and zeal. Press on, brother!
The same first camp I attended at Diguna will
always be special to me. On the first night, the last session was movie time
and we were watching the brilliant ‘Black Diamond’. Suddenly, just before
climax, the movie was rudely interrupted by a guy simply because there were
rules to follow and it was past 10p.m., the allotted bed time. I disliked that
guy there and then but God used him two days later as he led us in a session
for prayer and I gave my life to Christ. Behold, Tony Ouma-a man who is more of
a brother than a friend. I’ll forever be indebted to him. Immediately upon my
salvation, he founded a bible-study group on realizing
the need for spiritual guidance and till today, I always wear a wristband
bearing the BS group name; Chosen 8 29.
Immensely gifted with eloquence, singing
ability and tons of wisdom, God has surely transformed the lives of many young
people through this fan of K’galo and the former giant Man Utd...
Inadvertently, time has now flown and so has he today aboard a flight to a land
far away. However, the seeds Tony has sown in my life and in that of many
others will hopefully be replicated. A skilful footballer, that’s probably the
only thing that failed to rub off on me J but I hold many memories mostly on
matters spiritual, relationships and football. Ever approachable, I’ve probably
opened up about the most personal battles over the past few years in my metamorphosis
from a boy to a man with Tony.
There are many other great people in my life
and I thank God for them. And this post is not about perfect people...no, far
from it. That would be utterly superficial. But I’ll remain forever indebted to
Anyangu, Mwangi and Ouma for their patience with me, their zeal and genuine
love for God and their passion to impact our generation. Now that the three
have families (Don’t get ideas, ladies), I pray that they’ll be immensely
blessed especially with love, health, peace, joy and prosperity.
God bless ya fellas. I celebrate you.